WHY DO WOMEN NEED DAILY SHOPPING?

Recently, only the lazy did not scold women for their passion for shopping, giving as evidence a variety of arguments, starting with the predominance of material interests over spiritual ones and ending with wastefulness and motivation. But, it turns out, there is no harm in shopping, only benefit - women are so arranged that shopping as a form of pleasure is necessary for them like air.

How and why this happens tells a teacher with many years of practice, owning ancient energy knowledge and practices, who graduated from Unity University in India, Diana Shcherbanskaya .

How is the female psyche

The female psyche is so arranged that we measure the world around us with small but frequent actions - iterations. Knowing this pattern will help us better understand ourselves and resort to its help when we feel dissatisfaction with something. To feel happy, one - even a very large - action is not enough for us, we need a lot of actions, and each of them - whether it is large or small - is counted as one.

You can’t saturate yourself with pleasant emotions associated with things that are pleasant for us once and for all, you need to do this constantly, only then you will feel satisfaction with yourself and life. For example, you can go to the famous European resort, where you will take baths daily, drink mineral water and undergo a massage. After you undergo a course of medical procedures, it will seem to you that you have done a lot for yourself, but after a week this feeling will begin to weaken, and after a month you will even consider that you did not please yourself a long time ago. But if you, returning home, continue to take care of yourself - albeit little by little, but every day, or at least every other day - the feeling that you love yourself, and therefore take care of yourself, will not leave you.

How often do you need to shop

This law has the most direct relation to shopping. Of course, you can shop once a month by buying everything you need, so to speak, with one check, comforting yourself with the fact that - in this way - you save time and money, and to a large extent this is true. But only such a shopping hurricane will give you a one-time pleasure, and it does not matter what you buy at the same time - a whole wardrobe or a bottle of nail polish.

A feeling of satisfaction will be enough for someone for a day, someone for a week, but nobody will be able to stretch it for a month and even more so for a longer period. Therefore, to please yourself with purchases - albeit little by little, a little, but constantly, and preferably even completely every day. As Sholom Aleichem said, it’s better to give a woman a bunch of violets every day than once a year - a mink coat, and ideally it would be nice to get both.

Why do we need a lot of things

People who preach asceticism and the rejection of material wealth in favor of the spiritual, after reading the above, may ask: why do we need so much good - what will we do with it? And here we need to recall one more regularity of the female psyche: we just need to have a lot of everything, because it gives us a sense of stability and, as a result, security. It’s hard to say where we need all sorts of supplies, from food to bedclothes, clothes and cosmetics — it’s probably in the genes from the time when our mothers and grandmothers were forced to live in conditions of total deficit, or even the complete absence of any goods. But the fact remains: the more things are stored in our closets and wardrobes, the more comfortable and protected from various everyday troubles we feel.

10 tips for beginner travelers-shoppers

In her previous travel column, Zhanna Badoeva already told SPLETNIK.RU readers about the most unusual beauty procedures and tools from around the world, today the TV presenter shares tips with novice travelers-shoppers. We read and take note!

1. Do not take all the savings on yourfirst shopping trip. There is a chance to buy everything, but not what you need. Let your budget be limited. For the first trip, for example, to Europe, 2,000 dollars or euros are enough.
2. Be sure to read all the shopping guides, recommendations of friends and acquaintances before traveling to a specific country.
3. Before you buy something, ask yourself the question, do you really need this thing, how much you need it and why. Need - buy! Doubt it? Leave the purchase for later. So to say, "sleep" with a future purchase.
4. One of the best places for shopping is outlets. They are in almost every country. Both the mass market brands and the famous luxury brands at very affordable prices are concentrated there. Outlets are usually located outside the city, so you have to spend time on the road, but it's worth it.
5. Arriving at your destination, do the so-called "Market Survey." See what of the suggested stores / items / brands to choose from. Go around all the stores presented, try on, take time to "think" and the next day go buy.
6. Communicate more with the locals. You can always ask them where to find good and inexpensive stores with clothes or accessories from local designers, where markets or antique collapses are concentrated.
7. Local designers in every country - yours! The brands are little-known, the prices are reasonable, but the option to meet a friend in exactly the same clothes is zero. Do not chase brands, rely on exclusivity.
8. Spend no more than two hours a day on shopping. Otherwise, the eye begins to blur, fatigue and a desire to buy everything appear. The next morning, when you see countless packages of things that you do not need, you will regret it.
9. It is important to buy things when there is an understanding of what and how you will wear them (shoes, bag, accessories).
10. Do not buy what you saw at fashion shows, in magazines or on star models, because even if it is a very fashionable thing, it may not be yours. And you will not look stylish, but funny.